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Posts: 73899 (01/14/2009 9:43 PM) Best Newcomer '03 |
I told him up front my feelings about that and he did it anyways. That's why i'm pissed. I don't care if you date someone at the same time but sleeping together is not cool in my opinion. I deserve the choice to date someone who is dating multiple people or not. He didn't give me that choice and that makes him a douche in my opinion. Yeah... so wasn't he doing the right thing by being up front with you about it? I don't understand... |
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Posts: 671 (01/14/2009 9:45 PM) |
Alex the Goob wrote:Grow up? Lol ok. Where did I say EVERYONE dates multiple people at the same time? I didn't. But it's a very common thing and like I said....part of the dating game. It's just funny to me when a girl is casually dating a guy, nothing serious at all and then gets all pissed if he is dating someone else. This is exactly how girls get played over and over. If you're JUST casually dating, then the guy is doing nothing wrong by dating other people. I can't believe no one in here has dated more than 1 guy at a time. In this situation the OP should be grateful that the guy told her. He did what was right and cut things off because he found someone else...how does that make him an asshole? An asshole would be a guy who continues so seriously date or become bf/gf with one girl and then continue to see other girls on the side. |
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clarabelle21 |
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Posts: 700 (01/14/2009 9:46 PM) |
Telling me after over a month isn't being up front. I told him this on date one...he was already dating the other chick. I wouldn't have continued to
see him!
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Alex the Goob |
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Posts: 44473 (01/14/2009 9:46 PM) |
You're assuming that since we're not cool with this, we're single.
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beautifulbelief |
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Posts: 3910 (01/14/2009 9:48 PM) |
You don't live in NYC do you?
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clarabelle21 |
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Posts: 701 (01/14/2009 9:48 PM) |
Whatever, to each his own. I'm not cool with fucking multiple men and the same time and i'm not comfortable with the person i'm sleeping with to be
dating other people. I'm not saying everyone has to agree with that.
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Paiger171 |
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Posts: 8573 (01/14/2009 10:03 PM) |
What a shit bag!
On a side not, I love your s/n! My kitty's name is Clarabelle! |
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clarabelle21 |
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Posts: 702 (01/14/2009 10:06 PM) |
Paiger171 wrote:Aw really? I've never heard of anyone naming their cat that! How cute 
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RollerGirl19 |
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Posts: 11197 (01/14/2009 10:07 PM) |
DoesThatSparkle wrote:I highly doubt you've dated multiple men at one time, Kellydoll. |
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nardpuppy |
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Posts: 347 (01/14/2009 10:22 PM) |
Aww I'm sorry girl! He sounds like a Grade A douche!
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Paiger171 |
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Posts: 8586 (01/14/2009 10:24 PM) |
clarabelle21 wrote: Yep...Her name was Kara at the Humane Society, but we changed it to Clara...then eventually Clarabelle. Actually, now she gets called Clarabellski 
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Posts: 871 (01/14/2009 10:32 PM) |
it's a shitty situation but on the bright side, it wasn't serious and you'll be able to move on quickly.
i got played too by a guy and he just stopped responding to my texts and ignored my calls, at least your guy was up front. anyway, i know you're pissed but hopefully you'll get over it soon. |
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clarabelle21 |
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Posts: 703 (01/14/2009 10:34 PM) |
Dsupastar wrote:Yep you're right. I'm pretty much over him already. It still hurts the ego a little though  I knew I should have dumped him after the
second date. Oh well!
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clarabelle21 |
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Posts: 704 (01/14/2009 10:35 PM) |
Paiger171 wrote:Haha never heard that one! I get claracluck a lot too but never clarabellski! |
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Posts: 5859 (01/14/2009 10:55 PM) |
Eew, I'm sorry that sucks. I hope you'll feel better soon and forget about him!
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You must be single.
Grow up.
