I got to thinking about this when I was in Starbucks today. A guy (who looked to be in his late 20's, I'd say maybe 27-29...no older than 30 anyway)
was there with his daughter (I'd say she was 3 or 4) and they kept talking to me when all I wanted to do was be left alone, order my coffee, and leave. Any
person who has children is a red flag for me and I don't get why women are attracted to guys who have kids.
Why are girls attracted to guys with kids?
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Certainly Not Dcutie |
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Posts: 13887 (01/07/2009 12:10 AM) |
Good question.
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Posts: 52912 (01/07/2009 12:11 AM) |
I think it's cute when guys interact with little kids that aren't their own!!!
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Posts: 38728 (01/07/2009 12:13 AM) Friendliest JJBer '07 |
I think women that like kids/want to have kids find it adorable. Ultimately they'd want somebody who is a good father so when they see a guy interacting
with kids they find it attractive.
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Posts: 60918 (01/07/2009 12:16 AM) JJBer of the Year |
My ex/whatever he is has a kid and...I don't know. I met him and had a crush on him before his son was born. It does make things somewhat more difficult
and complicated though.
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Posts: 688 (01/07/2009 12:17 AM) |
Why is anyone attracted to anyone?
Im curious the age of the OP. When I was younger I think I agreed with you. But now I see that life can be complicated, things dont always work out despite best intentions, and there is something very attractive about a man who, if he had children, but is single, and living a responsible lifestyle, and clearly is capable of deep love and affection for those children, is lovely to spend time with. If you are still in party mode of course than its not for you. |
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Posts: 9042 (01/07/2009 12:19 AM) |
I think it's cute. But I don't know if I want to get involved with someone with kids. You always have to deal with the baby mama drama!
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Posts: 10595 (01/07/2009 12:22 AM) |
I have no idea. If I find out a guy has kids, I immediately lose interest.
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It allows me to see a whole other part of the person, imo. I mean, I wouldn't have problems with someone having kids. As long as they were a good father
and loving. I know I want kids, a lot of kids, so to me it's good to see the qualities the person has as a father, and like I said, you see a whole
different side of a man when he is with his kids and I think it can be endearing. One of my friends in college was dating someone with a daughter and omg we
had so much fun with her when we would take care of her.
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Posts: 147 (01/07/2009 12:26 AM) |
SaveCleo wrote: me too! |
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