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l0pez	wth!!!! the guys I meet..	Lead	[-]
Posts: 1191 (11/17/2008 3:51 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just keeps on getting worse and worse!! Almost two months ago I met a guy through a friend of mine. We've been talking on msn and facebook since then and we really hit it of. Then he tells me he has a best friend that is a girl, and that they've been friends since they were small. So after a while we find out(when he came to visit my place for the first time) that she is actually my next door neighbour! We thought that was pretty funny! This weekend he's spent a lot of time with me, we didn't have sex, just hanging out, watching movies, cuddling and we've been talking A LOT. We've slept in the same bed, and I've been to his place..We decided before we wanted to take things slow cause we've both been hurt and royaly screwed over in the past. I thought to myself, this guy is pretty sweet and into me! So last night he was here, but said he had to leave cause he was supposed to get up early in the morning. An hour later he logged on Msn... just to tell me he was with his best friend and they used to sleep in the same bed, and he had to POINT OUT that they Never have sex, just sleep together because of the company!!!! He GOES ON saying he's so comfortable around her cause she lets him be "independent" and not wanting cuddles all the time!!!!! SERIOUSLY!!! how stupid are boys!!!!
nsyncluver327		#1	[-]
Posts: 3990 (11/17/2008 4:00 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	this whole story is ridiculous
l0pez		#2	[-]
Posts: 1192 (11/17/2008 4:06 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	what do you mean? It was good until the end part..nsyncluver327 wrote: this whole story is ridiculous what do you mean? It was all good until the end part..
RyanED		#3	[-]
Posts: 209 (11/17/2008 5:11 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	l0pez wrote: He GOES ON saying he's so comfortable around her cause she lets him be "independent" and not wanting cuddles all the time!!!!! SERIOUSLY!!! how stupid are boys!!!! The problem is most men don't like to cuddle, especially in public. Even worse would be having to cuddle while watching sports! When I'm watching an NFL game, NBA game or even a Major League Baseball game, the last thing I'm thinking about is cuddling with a woman. I'm sorry but a man definitely needs his space! That guy you've been hanging out with seems like a cool guy. If I were you, I'd back off and give him some more space. Let him be independent, otherwise he's going to feel like he's not in control around you. If a man doesn't feel like he's in control, that's not a situation or relationship he wants to be in more times than not. He'll end up wanting you even more in the long run, trust me. Just give him his space for right now. Edited By: RyanED 11/17/2008 5:14 AM. Edited 1 times.
l0pez		#4	[-]
Posts: 1193 (11/17/2008 8:06 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	YEAH but He's the one who said he likes to cuddle with ME just a few hours earlier..I don't think you got my point. I don't think it's right that he goes over to my Next Door Neighbour to sleep beside Her, when he could have slept beside me. I seriously don't understand his reasoning to do that!! I doubt he would love it if I went to a guy friend of mine to sleep and I told him i did that cause "I like you so much!!" uhm NO.
Pliant Pineapple		#5	[-]
Posts: 42308 (11/17/2008 8:10 AM) Funniest JJBer '06 JJBer of the Year '07 Funniest JJBer '09 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Gay.
RyanED		#6	[-]
Posts: 211 (11/17/2008 8:26 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	l0pez wrote: YEAH but He's the one who said he likes to cuddle with ME just a few hours earlier.. I don't think it's right that he goes over to my Next Door Neighbour to sleep beside Her, when he could have slept beside me. I seriously don't understand his reasoning to do that!! It seems to me like this guy wants to have a threesome with you and your friend, or at the very least he's just trying to have sex with the first one that gives it up. Ultimately, he wants to have sex with both of you though. He doesn't want to come across as being a jerk, but when he says he likes to cuddle with you, that's his way of saying he wants to have sex with you. If you keep giving this guy the cold shoulder ( which I urge you to keep doing ), I bet he's going to end up getting frustrated and he'll eventually say he doesn't like to cuddle. But because he doesn't want to impose his will on you, and once he realizes you're not going to have sex with him, he goes to your friend instead. This guy isn't spending all of that time talking with you, watching movies with you, and even sleeping with you in the same bed just because he's a great friend. He wants to have sex with you, plain and simple. He thinks that if he can go a respectable amount of time without having sex with you, that you'll eventually be begging him for sex, and he'd rather you be the one that turns into a sex freak. I think he's intrigued by that possibility. I bet this guys has already had sex with your friend, but he'll deny it if you ask him. His friend will likely deny it as well. I'd like to see this guy connected to a lie detecting machine, just like on some of those reality shows where they meet the parents. I bet this guy would fail a majority of the hardcore questions! Remember that honesty should be the most important quality you look for in a guy. At the end of the day, you want a man who's going to tell you the truth. Not tell you one thing and do another. Just don't have sex with this guy. Please don't! At this point, let him leech off your friend for his sexual fantasies.
l0pez		#7	[-]
Posts: 1194 (11/17/2008 9:18 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	RyanED wrote: l0pez wrote: YEAH but He's the one who said he likes to cuddle with ME just a few hours earlier.. I don't think it's right that he goes over to my Next Door Neighbour to sleep beside Her, when he could have slept beside me. I seriously don't understand his reasoning to do that!! It seems to me like this guy wants to have a threesome with you and your friend, or at the very least he's just trying to have sex with the first one that gives it up. Ultimately, he wants to have sex with both of you though. He doesn't want to come across as being a jerk, but when he says he likes to cuddle with you, that's his way of saying he wants to have sex with you. If you keep giving this guy the cold shoulder ( which I urge you to keep doing ), I bet he's going to end up getting frustrated and he'll eventually say he doesn't like to cuddle. But because he doesn't want to impose his will on you, and once he realizes you're not going to have sex with him, he goes to your friend instead. This guy isn't spending all of that time talking with you, watching movies with you, and even sleeping with you in the same bed just because he's a great friend. He wants to have sex with you, plain and simple. He thinks that if he can go a respectable amount of time without having sex with you, that you'll eventually be begging him for sex, and he'd rather you be the one that turns into a sex freak. I think he's intrigued by that possibility. Yes, my exact thoughtI just know it, i just can't believe I met another one of these guys. I'm such a bad judge of character, it's getting old! I bet this guys has already had sex with your friend, but he'll deny it if you ask him. His friend will likely deny it as well. I'd like to see this guy connected to a lie detecting machine, just like on some of those reality shows where they meet the parents. I bet this guy would fail a majority of the hardcore questions! Remember that honesty should be the most important quality you look for in a guy. At the end of the day, you want a man who's going to tell you the truth. Not tell you one thing and do another. Just don't have sex with this guy. Please don't! At this point, let him leech off your friend for his sexual fantasies.
Pmighty		#8	[-]
Posts: 117 (11/17/2008 9:42 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	that has to be one of the more anti-climaitc stories ive ever read

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