Give him an ultimatum. Tell him to come home STAT or threaten to tell your mom if he doesn't come home.
i think my dad is cheating *update*
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Posts: 10959 (08/22/2008 11:33 PM) |
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nerdnik |
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Posts: 13753 (08/22/2008 11:33 PM) |
FUNNYGRLLISA wrote:Okay put yourself in the OP's shoes. Literally -- do it. How would you feel waking up your mother and breaking that to her? How awful 
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Ninido |
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Posts: 5787 (08/22/2008 11:33 PM) |
Maybe your Mom knows, tbh. My Uncle and Aunt stayed together until their youngest child [my cousin lol] was in HS and oldest midway into college. And during
that time, she had a bf/SO and he was dating others. NO ONE in the family knew until they finally got divorced and it all came out. They told absolutely no one
what their arrangement was.
So it very well could be a similar situation. |
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Posts: 8147 (08/22/2008 11:34 PM) |
forget all this texting back and forth, call him, and keep calling him until he answers!
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Posts: 137 (08/22/2008 11:35 PM) |
leesuh773 wrote: yeah. i think im gunna go to bed. and see what happens tomorrow. im sorry if i freaked out on anyone (FUNNYGRLLISA) but now my whole family will change and i just dont want to deal with this |
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Posts: 1472 (08/22/2008 11:35 PM) |
FUNNYGRLLISA wrote:i dont have the heart to tell my mom and im like 5 years older than the OP 
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FUNNYGRLLISA |
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Posts: 16211 (08/22/2008 11:35 PM) |
I'm sorry but if my dad was cheating on my mom I don't give a fuck what time I found out.. she would know asap.
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nerdnik |
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Posts: 13754 (08/22/2008 11:36 PM) |
imcool84 wrote:I'll admit it -- I'm totally naive. I always believe people until they really prove that there is a reason not to. I believed LauraGirl/Newmom -- both dramas under both usernames! 
But how awful would you feel to call BS on someone and then find out that it was true? Ya know? |
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Posts: 21312 (08/22/2008 11:36 PM) |
nerdnik wrote: I would wait until morning to tell my mom. |
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FUNNYGRLLISA |
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Posts: 16212 (08/22/2008 11:36 PM) |
But everyone is different I suppose. GL and keep us "updated"
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another bad diary day |
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Posts: 1948 (08/22/2008 11:37 PM) |
Well that's you....15 is a pretty sensitive age for stuff like this. Not everyone would react how you would. Leave the poor girl alone the last thing she
needs right now is your shit when her support system is failing her terribly.
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Posts: 16213 (08/22/2008 11:38 PM) |
Like I said.
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beckyiskute |
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Posts: 138 (08/22/2008 11:38 PM) |
thanks guys
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Posts: 51235 (08/22/2008 11:39 PM) |
FUNNYGRLLISA wrote: I kind of have to agree. But there is only one thing I despise more than cheating, and that's hitting. So cheating reeeeeeeeally pisses me off and if I could have someone get caught you better believe I'd be all over it, even if it was my own father. And that text and his responses so far are just way too sketchy to think he's not doing it. |
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Posts: 5413 (08/22/2008 11:47 PM) |
Text him "I told mom." THAT will get his ass home real quick.
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mintyfresh11 |
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Posts: 2294 (08/22/2008 11:47 PM) |
Chances are, if her mom doesn't think there's anything wrong with the marriage, she's gonna tell the OP to go to bed and forget about it. I think
the OP should confront her dad in the morning and make him confess, if that's really what he's doing.
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badfur |
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Posts: 808 (08/22/2008 11:50 PM) |
FUNNYGRLLISA wrote: I don't think anybody cares what you would do or what you consider right. Each person and each situation is different. Let's hope that the OP will handle this in the best manner possible, regarding the circumstances. |
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ALR83 |
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Posts: 51237 (08/22/2008 11:56 PM) |
badfur wrote: Chill out, she was just stating what SHE would do. |
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Posts: 79088 (08/22/2008 11:57 PM) |
He doesn't seem so concerned
I would tell my mom ASAP. For a multitude of reasons. One being (and you may not want to hear this) she could get an STD. He could be cheating & they could still be having sex. |
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Posts: 810 (08/23/2008 12:03 AM) |
ALR83 wrote: And that's why I pinpointed to her the obvious fact that no one cares. Condescending attitudes get on my nerves, esp. when the one to which it is aimed at, goes through a rough patch. |
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