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08/07/2008 8:10 PM
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KSS1079 wrote: You know...I believed you when I first read this post...UNTIL I remembered reading something you wrote earlier this morning. So, I'm gonna go ahead and call TennMannMusic wrote: I have an issue going on right now that I need to talk to someone about but I cant. My best friend would kill me if she knew the situation. Which makes it even worse. http://www.thejjb.com/topic/366139/t/Do-you-ever-have-a-problem-situation-in-your-life-that-you.html
You know...I believed you when I first read this post...UNTIL I remembered reading something you wrote earlier this morning. So, I'm gonna go ahead and call
TennMannMusic wrote: I have an issue going on right now that I need to talk to someone about but I cant. My best friend would kill me if she knew the situation. Which makes it even worse.
http://www.thejjb.com/topic/366139/t/Do-you-ever-have-a-problem-situation-in-your-life-that-you.html
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Dylishis wrote: A
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08/07/2008 8:22 PM
Dylishis wrote: And the both of you have two period ellipses real bad. You guys should take some classes together, since you're sharing a dick. You.. know what I'm saying?
I noticed that too! The OP has always typed like that, I know I'm crazy for remembering this detail, but it annoyed me so much. So the whole "copy and pasting my friend's email" thing was a little suspicious since it was the same typing pattern.
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08/07/2008 8:23 PM
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Dylishis wrote: So fuck you to the bitches that believe I did anything wrong in this situation. Hopefully you wont be the one sitting here having no fucking clue what to do with yourself. Or wonder if while you are eating dinner if its her face in the back of his mind and not your own. I still havent decided what I need to do. I am beside myself and get more and more angry as time passes. But thanks for the advice from the few of you that can understand shit like this does happen to people that did nothing to deserve it. Please understand that I am not being bitch for the sake of being a bitch. This whole post screams fuckery. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. Why didn't you just come out with it? A simple: "Look at this e-mail my slut of a friend sent to another friend about MY HUSBAND". What is wrong with you? I'm sorry. I don't get it. And then THIS. Thats just it though.. you cant exactly "cut ties". Not when its someone you see on a daily basis. How the hell are you rationalizing FOR them and they're fucking YOU over? Then this: Okay.. again.. I am not the person that has done the cheating. Infact its the other way around.. except I am supposedly in the dark. How did like... all of a sudden it just stopped being hypothetical and you turned into the victim? This is what's really making me scratch my head... I mean, these are only simple phrases and anyone could say them but... as you put it: but he is overly affectionate with a lot of people. And they have been friends for a while.. so no it never bothered me. and of course, in her advice e-mail "she" said He is overly affectionate with you.. but he always has been. Doesn't bother you, doesn't bother his wife, and doesn't bother your husband. Just the way he is. I mean, no wonder he's messing with both of you. You sound a lot alike. You really seem to share the same feelings and identify with one another real well. I mean, shit. If I was a scandalous adulterous bitch, I'd love to have a married friend like you. That's such an ideal situation. And the both of you have two period ellipses real bad. You guys should take some classes together, since you're sharing a dick. You.. know what I'm saying?
So fuck you to the bitches that believe I did anything wrong in this situation. Hopefully you wont be the one sitting here having no fucking clue what to do with yourself. Or wonder if while you are eating dinner if its her face in the back of his mind and not your own. I still havent decided what I need to do. I am beside myself and get more and more angry as time passes. But thanks for the advice from the few of you that can understand shit like this does happen to people that did nothing to deserve it.
Thats just it though.. you cant exactly "cut ties". Not when its someone you see on a daily basis.
Okay.. again.. I am not the person that has done the cheating. Infact its the other way around.. except I am supposedly in the dark.
but he is overly affectionate with a lot of people. And they have been friends for a while.. so no it never bothered me.
He is overly affectionate with you.. but he always has been. Doesn't bother you, doesn't bother his wife, and doesn't bother your husband. Just the way he is.
I am bowing down to you right now.
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08/07/2008 8:27 PM
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08/07/2008 8:28 PM
Dylishis wrote: JulieAnne20 wrote: Where's the OP? Come back, OP, come back! She's got married wang to suck and a husband to betray errands to run! DUH! She doesn't have time to be here like that! KEEP UP!
JulieAnne20 wrote: Where's the OP? Come back, OP, come back!
She's got married wang to suck and a husband to betray errands to run! DUH! She doesn't have time to be here like that! KEEP UP!
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08/07/2008 8:32 PM
TennMannMusic wrote: You meet a guy.. Fall in love.. Get married. Everything for the most part is great. From what everyone else can see. There are bits and pieces of things that you hide to not only protect yourself.. But the views that other people may have on him. You buy a house and are living a normal mostly "happy" life. Fast forward You have a best friend.. that has a husband you've known for a really long time. He is overly affectionate with you.. but he always has been. Doesn't bother you, doesn't bother his wife, and doesn't bother your husband. Just the way he is. You go over to this friend's house one night. Eat dinner, watch a movie. Everything is normal nothing out of the ordinary. Your best friend decides she is going to bed. You stay to finish the movie because you haven't seen it yet. Husband gets up to get you something to drink and sets right next to you on the couch. Again nothing out of the ordinary. The two of you start talking about things.. how you have known one another for a really long time. He mentions that he finds it odd that the two of you never dated. Now that you think about it.. you find it odd to. He mentions a few things.. words are exchanged between the two of you. And he leans over and kisses you. For some reason you don't stop him. Don't even want to stop him. Things progress. Next thing you know you're having the most AMAZING sex you've ever had. Both of you finish.. you many more times than once. You get dressed and go home. You wake up the next morning expecting to feel REALLY bad. But for some reason you don't. You don't have anyone that you can talk to.. because for one you've just slept with your best friends husband.. and two what if she or your husband finds out? So you keep it quiet. The two of you exchange words through email.. he calls a few times. But you can't stop thinking about him. It is eating you alive to see him. To touch him. To have him close. But you know that it's the worst thing you could do. Ruin your Marriage.. lose your best friend. This has to stop. How does one pull themselves away from a situation like this when they see that person every day? How is it something you can overcome when the feelings from it are so strong?
You meet a guy.. Fall in love.. Get married. Everything for the most part is great. From what everyone else can see. There are bits and pieces of things that you hide to not only protect yourself.. But the views that other people may have on him. You buy a house and are living a normal mostly "happy" life.
Fast forward
You have a best friend.. that has a husband you've known for a really long time. He is overly affectionate with you.. but he always has been. Doesn't bother you, doesn't bother his wife, and doesn't bother your husband. Just the way he is.
You go over to this friend's house one night. Eat dinner, watch a movie. Everything is normal nothing out of the ordinary. Your best friend decides she is going to bed. You stay to finish the movie because you haven't seen it yet. Husband gets up to get you something to drink and sets right next to you on the couch. Again nothing out of the ordinary.
The two of you start talking about things.. how you have known one another for a really long time. He mentions that he finds it odd that the two of you never dated. Now that you think about it.. you find it odd to. He mentions a few things.. words are exchanged between the two of you. And he leans over and kisses you.
For some reason you don't stop him. Don't even want to stop him. Things progress. Next thing you know you're having the most AMAZING sex you've ever had. Both of you finish.. you many more times than once. You get dressed and go home.
You wake up the next morning expecting to feel REALLY bad. But for some reason you don't. You don't have anyone that you can talk to.. because for one you've just slept with your best friends husband.. and two what if she or your husband finds out? So you keep it quiet.
The two of you exchange words through email.. he calls a few times. But you can't stop thinking about him. It is eating you alive to see him. To touch him. To have him close. But you know that it's the worst thing you could do. Ruin your Marriage.. lose your best friend. This has to stop.
How does one pull themselves away from a situation like this when they see that person every day? How is it something you can overcome when the feelings from it are so strong?
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