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Have you ever gone to a bar by yourself? |
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Posts: 1649 (07/05/2008 10:02 PM) |
I'm feeling sad and sorry for myself and don't want to be alone.
I like, vaguely know the bartenders. KNow them enough to where they bought oranges to slice up in drinks just for me. |
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Posts: 3561 (07/05/2008 10:03 PM) |
i've never done it,but i get the feeling i might have to one day. i need to make friends here since I dont know anyone except coworkers.
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Posts: 43532 (07/05/2008 10:03 PM) |
no, I'm not that pathetic...
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Posts: 17360 (07/05/2008 10:03 PM) |
If you know the bartenders, go for it. You'll have someone to talk to! Come here and get drunk and watch movies with me.
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Posts: 4987 (07/05/2008 10:03 PM) |
aw no, I have never been alone at the bar by myself.
Are you upset about the guy? |
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Posts: 1650 (07/05/2008 10:05 PM) |
dolce55 wrote:
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Posts: 1651 (07/05/2008 10:06 PM) |
watch me as I fall wrote: Is it really pathetic? I'm not going toa club to pick up some dick or anything. I just want to enjoy some cocktails and don't feel like ebing home alone. |
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Posts: 6091 (07/05/2008 10:07 PM) Current Events Scoop '07 |
watch me as I fall wrote: I fail to see how going to bar without a gaggle of friends is pathetic. I have gone to bars by myself, particularly when I am traveling. Sure, if you're just going to get drunk and feel sorry for yourself, better to stay home. But, if you feel like going out, having a beer, and talking to some people, go. |
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Posts: 3562 (07/05/2008 10:12 PM) |
RockNRollApartment wrote: Its tough because all of my coworkers are from this area and they've had the same friends their entire lives. Its hard to bring someone new into the
fold. I've made friends with two coworkers that arent from Minnesota and we've become close, but one of them has been living here longer than i have
and she's got a bunch of friends (not to mention, she's going to be leaving soon), and the other seems to have rich friends that fly in to town every
weekend.
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Posts: 1655 (07/05/2008 10:16 PM) |
Exactly! My BFF and I, were always together. And now he has a boyfriend. I have a married couple as friends, but they're typical marrieds, they're rarely go out. And I know like, one or two other girls here but one's flaky and doesn't call half the time, the other has kids. It's just hard. I'm used to a group of girls that were ALWAYS going out and ready to party. |
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Posts: 1429 (07/05/2008 10:18 PM) |
Sure. I love the food they have in this bar, so one day I *had* to go.
 But after an hour or so a friend showed up anyway.
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Posts: 3994 (07/05/2008 10:21 PM) |
i have once or twice but i did not stay long and normally was watching a game on the big screen but i was in a safe and not far area from my college. Since
home i do not and right now i am debating. I just dont want something to happen and it is a long drive back home to any bar around here, so it is annoying.
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dolce55 |
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Posts: 3565 (07/05/2008 10:21 PM) |
I just need friends because I do not wnt to be miserable here. My family is on the east coast, I dont have anyone here. I really need to meet other people.
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Posts: 1658 (07/05/2008 10:24 PM) |
Yeah I'm 900 miles away from my family!
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Posts: 9497 (07/05/2008 10:26 PM) |
 I'd feel kinda conspicuous in a bar by myself!
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Posts: 65832 (07/05/2008 10:28 PM) Best Newcomer '03 |
I was really proud of myself when I ate at a restaurant that wasn't a deli/sandwich/counter type place, by myself. It'd take balls to go to a bar! Do
it and see what happens!
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Posts: 1039 (07/05/2008 10:28 PM) |
Yes I have and I find I've always enjoyed it. I've had interesting conversations with people or a bartender about places they have traveled, careers,
etc. I am not talking going to the sleaziest bar, but some nicer places. Who cares what people think of you and what you do. You should just try it and if you
don't enjoy it then just go out with friends from there on out.
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Posts: 3567 (07/05/2008 10:28 PM) |
RockNRollApartment wrote: try 1312 miles away. it sucks and this is my first time living on my own too. sometimes it really sucks. |
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Posts: 443 (07/05/2008 10:33 PM) |
No, I wouldn't feel comfortable being alone in a bar.
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