Ninido wrote:Disagree. I was the married one in one case, and had a good male friend co-worker -- whom my husband met and knew all about -- and we went to lunch together, some work-related events (we work in a very social industry) after work and once went for a drink after work, wherein my husband picked me up from the bar and he and dude said hey and chatted.
But going and trying to hang out w/ a married coworker, just the two of you, is shady no matter how innocent you wanna try to play it off as.
That is what it looks like when it's innocent. No secrecy, no clandestine shit.

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