I feel disgusted, annoyed, or just unimpressed by pretty much anything any guy says or does to me. It's this sort of all-consuming repulsion, and it
makes me want to yell at any of them that hits on me. I ignore phone calls; get pissed when one keeps coming at me and doing "sweet" things; and have
even considered sending a blanket text message that says "I'm not interested, fuck off."
I'm so sick of perfectly fine friends turning into must-avoid pests, as soon as they confess feelings or attraction. I am so sick of having to constantly
devise how-to-reject-while-not-making-it-awkward schemes.
I do not know one man I am currently attracted to. The only one I was attracted to is a douche, and thinking back on him, makes me feel icky about him too!
Has this ever happened to anyone? How do I make it go away? I am becoming an absolute bitch/borderline lesbian.
Anyone ever just NOT interested in men?
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Posts: 726 (02/11/2008 12:45 AM) |
nope. love em a lot. are you just asexual, or what? or are you just that hot that you can't deal with every man wanting to get with you? hehehe jk.
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Posts: 7212 (02/11/2008 12:45 AM) |
I think it's because you've been having some shitty encounters with guys recently. Surround yourself with nice ones, not ones that are just out to get
some ass. Easier said than done, though.
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Posts: 24940 (02/11/2008 12:48 AM) |
I'm pretty much like that with most guys. I guess I just get annoyed by how superficial dating is. I'm much more likely to start dating or start a
relationship with someone I've grown to like a lot by being friends first.
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Posts: 2399 (02/11/2008 12:49 AM) |
All the time.
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Posts: 21681 (02/11/2008 12:49 AM) JJB Smartass '08 |
SexysBeenBroughten wrote: Have you been molested?
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Posts: 6443 (02/11/2008 12:51 AM) |
Yes. At the moment I am so sick of men & I have no patience to deal with their childish behavior.
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Posts: 731 (02/11/2008 12:54 AM) |
I haven't been molested! I did have a non-positive experience with a man recently, but nothing extraordinary: the standard
he-wanted-to-get-in-my-pants-and-I-fell-for-it story. But that's not even the point. Every other person that comes at me inspires only disgust, and zerooo
flattery, in me.
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Posts: 729 (02/11/2008 12:54 AM) |
Guys... suck sometimes. But hey, we can also be great at times too! It's just a matter of finding a half decent one... which, as BackToReality kinda said,
is easier said than done... I've lucked out recently and found an amazing guy, but it's tough since I'm only gonna be living in this country for
another 4 months and he also likes someone else (who is currently out of the country but will be coming back soon)... but he's the cutest guy ever, sooooo
sweet... he's helped me soooo much with self esteem stuff, haha.
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Posts: 4876 (02/11/2008 12:56 AM) |
That's usually how I am, but it's because I'm a snob and I get bored easily.
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Posts: 6579 (02/11/2008 12:59 AM) |
Nope. I love men and women equally at this point in time
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Posts: 733 (02/11/2008 1:01 AM) |
Nascar Mouse wrote: Ha. That may have something to do with it... |
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Posts: 54 (02/11/2008 1:03 AM) |
I feel you girl. It is really annoying when every guy who you think is just a friend, get it into their heads that you are "dating." It's like
you can't just be friends with anyone any more. And I too foolishly had an experience recently where I knew the guy only wanted sex and I gave in and now I
wish I hadn't and don't know how to get rid of him either, because I want to find a nice guy who is actually interested in dating. It is definitely
hard out here for single young women. But, don't give up. I truly believe that there is someone out there for everyone. Just keep on believing. Hang in
there : )
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Posts: 26410 (02/11/2008 1:05 AM) |
I have no interest in ever trying to have a relationship with a guy again. It just takes too much out of me and I can't go through being tossed aside
again. In general, I'm tired of trying to be the best girlfriend/friend/worker I can be and still being walked all over. I don't have the fight left in
me to care anymore.
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Posts: 12220 (02/11/2008 1:09 AM) |
Just gotta stop letting the way you feel about yourself revolve around a man. I'm stealing this from my friend's fb, its a Katt William's quote and
its totally something to live by.
"ladies you need to understand that as long as you got a vagina, you run the entire motherfucking universe. i'm tellin' you, you got to be the shit to YOU. stop waiting on a nigga to verify whether you the shit or not. bitch, if you the shit, you the motherfuckin' shit. AND this. life is short. enjoy your mother fucking life. do whatever you can for your life to be the shit. i don't fuck with niggas that don't keep it pushin'. you got to be fuckin' with niggas that doin' better and better and better and better and better. stop fuckin' with niggas that's doin' the same shit. i don't even go to niggas' birthday parties if they doin' the same shit they was doin' last year. nigga, no...been there, done that, see you pimpin'!" Excuse, the language, but yeah. Think about it. |
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Posts: 2987 (02/11/2008 1:15 AM) |
I feel like that a lot, but I think that has more to with the fact that I'm really shy.
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Posts: 714 (02/11/2008 1:18 AM) |
SparklyBlonde wrote: this is exactly how I feel too. And it annoys me when they can't even be my friend because they're already too interested. it's just so
annoying and superficial.
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Posts: 735 (02/11/2008 1:26 AM) |
WheezingChipmunk wrote: EXACTLY. |
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I think you just make poor decisions and that's why you end up so frustrated time after time.
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Posts: 1308 (02/11/2008 4:14 AM) |
I'm not because I just got out of an abusive relationship but I still know that there are better men out there. I'm still disinterested though.
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Posts: 1442 (02/11/2008 4:31 AM) |
I'm so sick of perfectly fine friends turning into must-avoid pests, as soon as they confess feelings or attraction. I am so sick of having to constantly devise how-to-reject-while-not-making-it-awkward schemes.I can relate to this much, but I still love men. 
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