I'm a bartender, and this isn't the first time I've dealt with people I don't like or don't like me. That comes and goes with jobs, you just learn to deal with it. That being said, I've been at my current job for over a year and have never dealt with the level of crazy to this caliber. It makes no damn sense. This one girl, let's call her F, has been shitty to me since day one. Just passive aggressive, actually aggressive, and just nasty. On one of my first days I said hi to her when I got to work and she looks at me and says "Oh my God, what's wrong with your face?" in the bitchiest way possible. What even is that? Recently an incident happened where I didn't want to switch shifts with her partner in crime, let's call her G, and they got beyond pissed with me. Stupid pissed. I got off work early, and went to my boyfriend's mom's 50th birthday, and F confronted me saying I was really selfish and shitty for not switching with G. She was in my face and I told her it's not her business and to drop it.
Whatever. Who cares right? Well, today my manager e-mailed myself and F saying he wanted the two of us to come in early to discuss some things. I am dreading this. I don't know if I'm going to be ambushed, if I'm going to be reprimanded, because I haven't done anything wrong. I'm not being biased either. I haven't cared what people thought about me since high school. That's not the issue. I work with her just fine. If I need her to do something I ask her. If I have a question I ask her. If she wants me to do something I'll do it. I asks if she needs help, or needs to go on a break. I'm professional at work. I know she has issues with me, but I'm curious as to what prompted my manager for this meeting.
I've been trying to get a new job anyway, I had a second job earlier in the year that I couldn't stay at because of scheduling, and I got along so well with everyone there. Currently I feel like a social pariah. This chick needs to get her shit together. She's 31 and I'm 28 for crying out loud. The other girl, G, is 33! Why do bitches be crazy?