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Diane99 wrote:You must know how much he makes? Child support (at least in Canada) is a table. Enter how much he makes, how many kids and boom....you get a number. That's a start. Spousal is more circumstantial.
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makesJCadjustHisbuttonfly wrote:I know he's going to pay the bills I'm just not sure how to go about talking to him about it or anything when he won't even talk to me to my face. This has all been done via text messages because he's too weak to talk to me in person. He was always like that though so I'm not surprised. My oldest son is 14 but he won't go near the baby. My daughters are 12 and 8 but my 12 year old isn't ready to watch a newborn. Maybe when he's older.
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jackson87 wrote: Please go to therapy. It's unfathomable that it will be any help to you right now, but it will help you. My sister went through something similar. Although, she didn't just have a baby. She was married for about the same amount of time, and her husband had been cheating on her for the last three years of their marriage. She was devastated. My parents finally talked her into going to therapy, and she says to this day it saved her life. It really got her through a rough patch. Life doesn't have to suck, it can be beautiful again. You just have to be strong, and get through this rough time. You can do it!!!
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AudaciousAudrey wrote:jackson87 wrote: Please go to therapy. It's unfathomable that it will be any help to you right now, but it will help you. My sister went through something similar. Although, she didn't just have a baby. She was married for about the same amount of time, and her husband had been cheating on her for the last three years of their marriage. She was devastated. My parents finally talked her into going to therapy, and she says to this day it saved her life. It really got her through a rough patch. Life doesn't have to suck, it can be beautiful again. You just have to be strong, and get through this rough time. You can do it!!!She can not force her husband to go with her if he is not willing.
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makesJCadjustHisbuttonfly wrote: It really is over. He's unwilling to work on anything. Typical of him to take the easy way out. I was going today to apply for that job but my best friend backed out saying she was sick and my only other choice was my mother and as soon as she got here they had to turn right back around to go home because she was too dizzy to watch him. Evidently it came on while driving. Whatever. I'm so over this shit. I'm ready for something positive to happen or come out of this but I don't see anything yet. I don't even know if I can apply for government aid since I have no job since we aren't divorced yet. We didn't qualify before but he's not living here now. I don't know how we are going to handle the bills right now. Ugh FML
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makesJCadjustHisbuttonfly wrote: I know he's going to pay the bills I'm just not sure how to go about talking to him about it or anything when he won't even talk to me to my face. This has all been done via text messages because he's too weak to talk to me in person. He was always like that though so I'm not surprised. My oldest son is 14 but he won't go near the baby. My daughters are 12 and 8 but my 12 year old isn't ready to watch a newborn. Maybe when he's older.
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