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je00a wrote:Eek Facebook official even after going through all this? I hope you don't get hurt. You should try actually calling him during his "busy" time and just say you missed him or come up with some story. Just to see if he answers and what's going on.
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Mistress Darcy wrote:Seems like a strange relationship if he cannot even hint at this weird "family stuff" that is keeping him away except for like, a few hours at night.
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Jrtismine wrote:je00a wrote:Eek Facebook official even after going through all this? I hope you don't get hurt. You should try actually calling him during his "busy" time and just say you missed him or come up with some story. Just to see if he answers and what's going on.we became "offical" and the convo went really akwardly. like he was all "well i'm not seeing anyone else and i spend all of my free time with you so yes i'm treating this like a relationship"
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LoungeChair wrote:Something is going on and he's using family as the excuse because it's an easy one. I'd move on.
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Jrtismine wrote:LoungeChair wrote:Something is going on and he's using family as the excuse because it's an easy one. I'd move on.i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing.
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JulieAnne20 wrote:Jrtismine wrote:LoungeChair wrote:Something is going on and he's using family as the excuse because it's an easy one. I'd move on.i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing. There you go.
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Jrtismine wrote:i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing.
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LoungeChair wrote:Jrtismine wrote:LoungeChair wrote:Something is going on and he's using family as the excuse because it's an easy one. I'd move on.i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing. Even if it truly is something going on with family, clearly, you're not happy with the situation. So if that's the case, why would you stay with someone who you don't even get 24 hours a week with? I'm telling you family is just the easy excuse for a guy to use when he's hiding something. In dating situations (IME), it's usually a default for "another person" in the picture.
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Jrtismine wrote:LoungeChair wrote:Jrtismine wrote:i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing. Even if it truly is something going on with family, clearly, you're not happy with the situation. So if that's the case, why would you stay with someone who you don't even get 24 hours a week with? I'm telling you family is just the easy excuse for a guy to use when he's hiding something. In dating situations (IME), it's usually a default for "another person" in the picture. i'm not happy with the situation but I do like him a lot and want things to continue if things were to be different. I just don't see it being another person in the picture. That to me doesn't add up. maybe i should just back burner this until he shares, or its resolved. i never thought about being the part time girlfriend. i just like him a hell of a lot and part of me wants to give it another month or so and see if things change. if not then just be done. but then its the whole other aspect of why wait?
LoungeChair wrote:Jrtismine wrote:i truely believe it's something going on in the family though. Maybe I'm just naive on the whole thing. Even if it truly is something going on with family, clearly, you're not happy with the situation. So if that's the case, why would you stay with someone who you don't even get 24 hours a week with? I'm telling you family is just the easy excuse for a guy to use when he's hiding something. In dating situations (IME), it's usually a default for "another person" in the picture.
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