The latest in a string of tragic suicides by gay youth, Zach Harrington ended his life after hearing anti-gay rhetoric at a City Council meeting.
According to Andrew Knittle of the Norman Transcript,
19-year-old Harrington attended a Sept. 28 meeting at City Hall in his
hometown of Norman, Oklahoma, the purpose of which was to discuss a
proposal to designate October as Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender
History Month in Norman. The council ended up voting for the measure,
but lots of the meeting's attendees were against it. Knittle writes,
One man said he moved to Norman because he thought it was the kind of
place that would never accept the GLBT community with open arms. A
woman, who described herself as "bi-racial," said she was tired of the
GLBT plight being compared to Civil Rights.
Some of those who opposed the proclamation claimed that members of
the GLBT community would use it to infiltrate the public school system,
essentially allowing the "gay lifestyle" to become a part of the
Others claimed that council recognizing October as GLBT History Month
was a waste of their time. Some members of the audience even suggested
that any council members voting in favor of the proclamation may have
trouble getting reelected.
Harrington's family thinks the meeting may have triggered his
suicide. His sister Nikki says, "When he was sitting there, I'm sure he
was internalizing everything and analyzing everything … that's the kind
of person he was. I'm sure he took it personally." Harrington also
apparently faced a homophobic environment growing up — his father says
he "feared for his safety on many occasions" in high school, and his
sister, who is older and went to the same school, says, "There was one
gay guy in my high school at the time, and he was made fun of all the
time. It was a pretty much non-stop thing at school."
The tragically long list of suicides by LGBT youth in recent weeks
can seem like a pattern, but at least one expert says it's just a matter
of increased visibility. Last week, Dave Reynolds of The Trevor Project told Towleroad,
From what we know and can tell, there has not been an increase in
suicide completions among lesbian, gay, bisexual transgender and
questioning (LGBTQ) youth over the past few weeks. Sadly, there are
likely this many deaths every week, but the media and the general
populace are just starting to realize the depth of this public health
and social justice issue.
It's horrifying that so many young people have had to die for us to
finally pay attention, and incredibly sad that we have to mark National Coming Out Day
by mourning the death of another teenager. All the advocacy in the
world won't bring Zach Harrington back, but we can honor his memory by
making sure that LGBT suicides aren't just another story of the week, but an urgent call to support gay youth and fight against those who torment them.