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        <![CDATA[ if you know my posts - earlier my dad escaped from the house - he has alzheimers.  3 of the men from our circle came to our door tonight to &quot;talk about
the problem&quot;  it just got me so upset because on top of being a caregiver i now have to deal with this.  they&#39;re coming back on saturday to
&quot;discuss the situation&quot;  he doesn&#39;t get out often.  he got out today under my supervision and he got out last year when the neighbors called the
cops on him.  i just don&#39;t... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: so all the neighbors are pissed now...*update* ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ yeah they are older probably like 12 and 14. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ why would kids just decide to come on my property and measure my driveway? they&#39;re not measuring anybody else&#39;s, they&#39;re not even measuring their
own. i just think it&#39;s mad shady dude. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Are you sure they told the kids to measure your driveway and it wasn&#39;t just kids playing and being kids? ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ i think so. i don&#39;t know why they would be doing that but after what&#39;s been going on the past few days it&#39;s got to be connected. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">brokenangel wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  edit - update: they called protective services on us! it&#39;s like just when you think the worst has passed! i was upstairs watching tv and my dad&#39;s
  sleeping next door to me and somebody kept ringing the doorbell and knocking. well after the incident the other night i don&#39;t answer the door anymore if
  i&#39;m not expecting somebody. so i call my mom to see if somebody&#39;s coming today and she said... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Oh I know! I didn&#39;t expect you to do anything, I was just commenting on it is all. I&#39;d hate for them to get a visit from someone other then a neighbor
because of an accident or something <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/ohwell.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ A few times is too many. I agree, but I don&#39;t know their situation, and I can&#39;t do anything about it <img src="http://images.yuku.com/image/gif/e3f255644e72e4e0daa7e86765f1b99d74fa0a1.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <img src="http://images.yuku.com/image/gif/08335212480f7da44e75da697b7040fb83e0838.gif"> goodluck w/ everything girl. it&#39;s not an easy situation at all. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ This was just emailed to me and it made me think of the OP, sorry its a bit off topic, but kinda speaks true to her situation. 
<br>
<br>
&gt; It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly
<br>
&gt; gentleman in his 80s
<br>
&gt; arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he
<br>
&gt; was in a hurry
<br>
&gt; as he had an appointment at 9:00.
<br>
&gt;
<br>
&gt; I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it
<br>
&gt; would be over an
<br>
&gt; hour before... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Sorry to hear you&#39;re going through so much. My grandfather had Alzheimer&#39;s too and it was tough to watch him deteriorate the way he did. We didn&#39;t
really know he had it till it was pretty far along. He had gone to the doctor and apparently he mistook the Dr saying he needed to go on a &#39;Low Sodium&#39;
diet with a &#39;No Salt/Sodium&#39; diet so he got super sick and ended up in the hospital and then in a nursing home.
<br>
My mom and I at the time ran like an Elderly home so... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ How does Spamster sound bitter? They didn&#39;t say anything wrong or rude. It&#39;s not like they were a bitch like some people in this thread. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">DigOutYourSoul wrote:</strong>
  <hr>

  <blockquote>
    <strong class="quote-title">Spamster wrote:</strong>
    <hr>
    I can understand where your neighbors are coming from. Maybe they reported you because they&#39;re genuinely concerned. It&#39;s a difficult situation for
    everyone involved, including your neighbors.
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  <br>
  Why the fuck do you always come across as so bitter?
  <br>
  <br>
  <br>
  She said he only got out,... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">Spamster wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  I can understand where your neighbors are coming from. Maybe they reported you because they&#39;re genuinely concerned. It&#39;s a difficult situation for
  everyone involved, including your neighbors.
</blockquote>
<br>
Why the fuck do you always come across as so bitter?
<br>
<br>
<br>
  She said he only got out, like, twice. How is that difficult for the neighbours? ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I can understand where your neighbors are coming from. Maybe they reported you because they&#39;re genuinely concerned. It&#39;s a difficult situation for
everyone involved, including your neighbors. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Sending good vibes your way, brokenangel. I hope everything works out for you and your fam. It&#39;s stressful enough as it is - you don&#39;t need these
neighbors bringing you down even more. <img src="http://images.yuku.com/image/gif/08335212480f7da44e75da697b7040fb83e0838.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ ruler - my mom already has POA for him. i&#39;m not worried about them taking him and i&#39;m rather excited for them to come. i just really wish protective
services would be able to report back to the people that filed the report because chances are my dad is being better taken care of than their kids. since it
was an anonymous thing the alz. assn. doesn&#39;t think they&#39;ll be contacted.
<br>
<br>
nancy - according to my mom his healthcare coverage doesn&#39;t cover nursing home&#39;s... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ My guess is you have nothing to worry about. You are taking good care of your dad. Open your house and let them see what is really going on. It is mandatory
for them to follow up when they get a complaint. In fact, you should just mention the problems these neighbors are giving you so they understand it isn&#39;t a
concerned citizen complaint. I would also tell them the extra measures you have taken to ensure your dad isn&#39;t getting out of the house. I know this is
tough, but keep your... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Like I said in the other post, I sympathize with both sides here. Granted, the neighbors could have handled the situation much, much better, but their reaction
is understandable if you really think about it. I know from experience (my grandfather on my dad&#39;s side had Alzheimer&#39;s and my grandmother on my
mom&#39;s side was senile) that people with those conditions have the potential to be very unpredictable, and like someone said earlier in the thread, can be
violent without... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ OP I am so sorry this is going on in your life right now. Not only is this your dad, who doesn&#39;t even know it, you are taking care of him instead of you
right now.
<br>
<br>
This has got to be very difficult for you. The neighbours would understand a lot more if it was their family member that this is happening to, and how
unbeleiveably *sp stressful it is on the WHOLE FAMILY.
<br>
<br>
I myself, have had my 90 year old grandmother collapse on me in the grocery store, ( she was living... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ My heart is absolutely breaking for you. I don&#39;t have personal experience in caring for an Alzheimer&#39;s patient, but I do know what it&#39;s like to be
a sole caretaker (I was in my early 20&#39;s too). If you need anything, please dont hesitate to PM me. People also stuck their noses where they didn&#39;t
belong and liked to cause problems that were unnecessary.
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I&#39;m wondering if the reason that the kids (and adults) are &quot;scared&quot; is because of the Graves... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ if you know my posts - earlier my dad escaped from the house - he has alzheimers.  3 of the men from our circle came to our door tonight to &quot;talk about
the problem&quot;  it just got me so upset because on top of being a caregiver i now have to deal with this.  they&#39;re coming back on saturday to
&quot;discuss the situation&quot;  he doesn&#39;t get out often.  he got out today under my supervision and he got out last year when the neighbors called the
cops on him.  i just don&#39;t... ]]></description>

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