Ladies, Would this piss you off?

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (OhManImScrewed) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:31:46 GMT

Well if it's a small thing, it may be that specific people were invited and not with +1s. However, it kind of seems like he's not too serious about the relationship if he didn't even think to bring you. I guess you could ask him what's up with that but it seems like something I would piss and moan about to myself and then just forget.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (PudgieBelly) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:25:49 GMT

How are you going to be pissed off that you aren't invited to a reception of someone you've met twice? You have to understand it's his brother's reception and he is in charge of inviting people, and perhaps since he eloped he really only wanted people he cared about there, like his close family and friends. I wouldn't get upset about it.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (JCfanaddict) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:15:39 GMT

lonely33 wrote:
Dating six months isn't a long enough time to be hanging around the family like that, IMO.

Really? I've been dating my boyfriend 6 months, and if either of us was invited to a family wedding reception, I can guarantee we'd each ask the other to attend. I didn't realize there was a set timeline to relationships. ...

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (babylulu) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:15:06 GMT

Maybe it was just a small get together with family and you're not family...

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Suzy321) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:06:50 GMT

Just because it's a "casual" reception doesn't mean money isn't tight and/or that it's not just close friends and family.

Yes, you've been dating the guy for 6 months, but the reception is for the brother. It's possible he just wanted the time to hang out with family and celebrate his brother's wedding... and not worry about keeping you amused.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (lonely33) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 14:05:00 GMT

Dating six months isn't a long enough time to be hanging around the family like that, IMO.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Driedflowers) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:55:29 GMT

NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

EJFiederer wrote:

Sweetie1384 wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

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Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (NickelodeonSucksLoL) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:50:54 GMT

Triple X Tera wrote:

NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

Triple X Tera wrote:
This reception could have been planned before he met you and maybe they had a tight budget and didn't want to spend money...

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (NickelodeonSucksLoL) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:48:30 GMT

Driedflowers wrote:

EJFiederer wrote:

Sweetie1384 wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

thetruthmaker wrote:
maybe his brother doesn't...

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Heathus Christ) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:48:10 GMT

Why is she dumb? I don't understand what kind of reception it is, either.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (EJFiederer) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:47:43 GMT

But you said that they are already married. This is just a reception after the fact to celebrate that, most likely with their closest family and friends. If they had a big wedding maybe things would be different but this is what they chose to do and I don't see how you can hold that against your boyfriend.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (McCaining Around) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:47:20 GMT

Obviously this is bothering you. So I think you need to just ask him. If you don't like the answer he gives you, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. And it's better you find that out now, 6 months into it, then say.. 2 years from now, isn't it?

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (xxGirlxxFixerxx) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:46:38 GMT

Do you know if he even had a +1 invite? Like someone said, maybe it was a budget thing or maybe it was just a small event for close family and friends.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Triple X Tera) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:45:40 GMT

NickelodeonSucksLoL wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

Triple X Tera wrote:
This reception could have been planned before he met you and maybe they had a tight budget and didn't want to spend money on an extra person coming, no matter who it was.

Try and get the...

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Driedflowers) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:44:07 GMT

EJFiederer wrote:

Sweetie1384 wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

thetruthmaker wrote:
maybe his brother doesn't like you?
I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met...

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (McCaining Around) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:43:18 GMT

NiteSky83 wrote:

What do you mean by reception? Reception for what? I'm confused
You're dumb.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Kippage) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:43:05 GMT

Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean you should be invited to all of their family events. Especially six months into a relationship. Sit back and chill.

Hell, at six months my family wouldn't even know I was seeing anyone, forget meeting them.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (xxGirlxxFixerxx) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:41:58 GMT

Well that makes sense then, only having met the brother twice. Obviously you aren't close so I wouldn't expect an invite, nor would I be peeved.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (NiteSky83) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:41:55 GMT

What do you mean by reception? Reception for what? I'm confused

You're dumb.

Re: Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (EJFiederer) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:39:47 GMT

Sweetie1384 wrote:

Driedflowers wrote:

thetruthmaker wrote:
maybe his brother doesn't like you?
I've considered that, but that doesn't make sense. I've only met him two times and I was friendly both times. If he doesn't like me it must be based on...

Ladies, Would this piss you off?

feeds@yuku.com (Driedflowers) — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 13:00:51 GMT

If your BF you have been dating for 6 months said he couldn't go out with you on Saturday night cause he had a reception to go to and you were okay with it because you figured it was for someone you didn't know and maybe he didn't get an invitation for two....and then he tells you the day of it's his BROTHER'S reception? I might be overreacting but that really pissed me off and more than anything hurt my feelings. I'm up and down about this guy anyway and I just feel...