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        <![CDATA[ I want to know what you guys think about this. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 11 months and we&#39;re sophomores in college. Our relationship has
always been really good, and we&#39;ve never really had any big fights or issues or anything. I think the biggest issue we&#39;ve had to deal with (which is
pretty ridiculous) is that his male best friend had a little crush on me at the beginning of freshman year, never made any attempt to try to date me or
anything, got over it, and... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Give me your take on a boyfriend issue ]]></title>
			<link>http://jjb.yuku.com/reply/7396811/t/Give-me-your-take-on-a-boyfriend-issue.html#reply-7396811</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Regardless of what happens between them, physical or not, a line is being crossed and that needs to be addressed. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Really? I guess...
<br>
<br>
I suppose I just don&#39;t see sexual tension in a friendship (as in a little, 99% unacknowledged, underlying attraction/chemistry) as such a bad thing. I
would imagine that most people in relationships (as my friend is, and as I am) aren&#39;t entirely blind to the appeal of other people...and that&#39;s okay.
As long as you are in control of yourself enough to be able to NOT act on it, it&#39;s fine. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">ICouldCatchAMonkey wrote:</strong>
  <hr>

  <br>
  What? How is she &quot;fine&quot; if her bf&#39;s in love with someone else (regardless of whether they&#39;re getting physical or not)?
  <br>
  <br>
  Ummm, so this is a difficult one. I am actually the &quot;best friend&quot; in one of these situations, and there&#39;s <strong>all kinds</strong> of weird
  gossip and shit floating around about the guy and I, <u><strong><font color="#FF0000">and... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 19:13:10 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  I don&#39;t get it. Nothing is going on but you two have sexual tension?
</blockquote>
<br>
<br>
Yeah. Just a little underlying...something...that neither of us have ever (hopefully will never) act(ed) on. ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Give me your take on a boyfriend issue ]]></title>
			<link>http://jjb.yuku.com/reply/7395928/t/Give-me-your-take-on-a-boyfriend-issue.html#reply-7395928</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Personally, it sounds to be like he has a crush on your... whatever she is... and he&#39;s slowly moving into a relationship with her. I mean, what boyfriend
goes and hangs out with a female &quot;friend&quot; in a LOCKED room when his girlfriend is right outside? I&#39;ve heard of this happening before and it was
always because they were starting a relationship and/or they liked each other. Even if they aren&#39;t doing shit it&#39;s only a matter of time. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">ICouldCatchAMonkey wrote:</strong>
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  <blockquote>
    does he WANT something to be going on?
  </blockquote>
  <br>
  <br>
  I am honestly not sure. I hope not. I try not to think about it, because I really don&#39;t want to go there...it would cause atomic-level drama.
</blockquote>IGNORE
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Exactly. That&#39;s the problem. Maybe it is all just friendship, but it seems like more. And from my experience, it always is a problem. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  does he WANT something to be going on?
</blockquote>
<br>
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I am honestly not sure. I hope not. I try not to think about it, because I really don&#39;t want to go there...it would cause atomic-level drama. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">ICouldCatchAMonkey wrote:</strong>
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    He is in love with her but she only likes him as a friend. You are fine unless she gets drunk and horny.
  </blockquote>
  <br>
  <br>
  What? How is she &quot;fine&quot; if her bf&#39;s in love with someone else (regardless of whether they&#39;re getting physical or not)?
  <br>
  <br>
  Ummm, so this is a difficult one. I am actually the &quot;best friend&quot; in one of these... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  He is in love with her but she only likes him as a friend. You are fine unless she gets drunk and horny.
</blockquote>
<br>
<br>
What? How is she &quot;fine&quot; if her bf&#39;s in love with someone else (regardless of whether they&#39;re getting physical or not)?
<br>
<br>
Ummm, so this is a difficult one. I am actually the &quot;best friend&quot; in one of these situations, and there&#39;s <strong>all kinds</strong> of weird
gossip and shit floating around about the guy and... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;ll just wait for my bf dumped me for my so-called friend thread. Itsa coming. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ typically when someone is confronted with something like this they&#39;re going to lie their butts off. Especially a man, and especially caught off guard. By
confronting him about the fact that you had a feeling something was going on between them, you&#39;ve made yourself seem insecure directly to him.. which is
never a good thing with regards to a man.
<br>
<br>
Even when you&#39;re suspicious, it&#39;s best to silently suspect and get the ball back in your court. You needed him to focus... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ break up with him, he&#39;s obviously cheating already or about to cheat. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  yeah, he just basically told you that there was great skiing to be had in Miami and you bought it hook line and sinker. Good luck with that
</blockquote>Love this analogy. I am so using this!
<br>
<br>
And I agree with most of these responses. He has feelings for her. Plain and simple. This is why I firmly believe that girls and guys can not simply be
&quot;best friends&quot; (Dawson&#39;s Creek anyone? <img src="http://static.yuku.com//domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/laugh.gif"... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 11:48:50 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">BackToReality wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  Yeah I wouldn&#39;t be having that.
</blockquote>
<br>
<br> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title"><strong class="quote-title">luckySC</strong> 0409 wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  He is one of those people that doesn&#39;t realize what he&#39;s doing until it&#39;s pointed out to him
</blockquote>
<br>
Bullshit.  I&#39;ll bet you a million dollars that he really just pretends like he doesn&#39;t realize what he&#39;s doing so that when you confront him, he
can lie and act like he didn&#39;t know what he was doing.  It makes him seem innocent even though... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 11:12:35 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Yeah, it does sound like you&#39;re making excuses. The problem is not so much what he does (and he may very well stop doing it now that you pointed it out)
but why he does it. So even if he&#39;s not talking about her as much, the fact remains that he seems to have strong feelings for someone other than his
girlfriend. If you can live with that, then that&#39;s fine. But at least be aware.
<br>
   
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<blockquote>
  The weird thing is (which is the part I wanted to get your opinions on)... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 02:23:46 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ why not also have a chat with the girl too. let her know that boundaries need to be respected. she cant always be calling for him to rescue her, unless she
thinks of him as a boyfriend too.
<br>
<br>
jesus, i feel like this is the week of &quot;hes just not that into you&quot;, ive been posting it all over jjb with the download. perhaps its time again ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;ve only read the first few replies, but first just let me say that not all men with girlfriends who have close female friends have anything going on with
them other than friendship. Even if the close fem friend is a big priority in their life. Some guys are just really there for their friends and want to take
care of them, and on the outside it can appear that there is more going on there when in reality it&#39;s all very platonic and it&#39;s just because the guy
loves his friends... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Batoutofheck: thanks for breaking it up. I wrote it with breaks originally and then they didn&#39;t show up.
<br>
<br>
Pinkberry: Not to single you out (because I do appreciate everyone&#39;s advice, even though I know you all think I am crazy and ridiculous for not taking it),
but I do appreciate your reply. He is one of those people that doesn&#39;t realize what he&#39;s doing until it&#39;s pointed out to him; that kind of thing
has happened before (him not realizing what he was doing... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I want to know what you guys think about this. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 11 months and we&#39;re sophomores in college. Our relationship has
always been really good, and we&#39;ve never really had any big fights or issues or anything. I think the biggest issue we&#39;ve had to deal with (which is
pretty ridiculous) is that his male best friend had a little crush on me at the beginning of freshman year, never made any attempt to try to date me or
anything, got over it, and... ]]></description>

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